TamedInsanity is not a fan of many things. Like our other Guests however, she does offer some good insights into the Anti-feminist movement which I’ve personally never looked into. Again there is the question of equality and what it means, which I’m happy to report that I’m finally making some sense of and coming to a point were something practical should be published soon.
I would like to point out that after going through TamedInsanity post, several questions about perception and reality arise. So, again, please address TamedInsanity as a guest and a valuable one as well. Thanks.
Now, let’s listen to TamedInsanity.
I have noticed for some reason, that internet harassment seems to be mostly feminists. Honestly. Though I do agree there are men and anti-feminists a part of this group the more I do what I do, the more I see feminists as the main aggressors. I wouldn’t even be a part of anti-feminism had the movement on social media not grown so vile that I was attacked for no reason.
It became clear just recently with the whole “shirt gate” thing, that this is what they do. They also routinely have gotten away with it at this point, and will continue to get away with it. In fact, this goes heavily ignored for some reason. It’s as if society believes that it’s okay for these women to do this because at the same time, feminists perpetuate the myth that women are weak little victims. That women who threaten and bully are only doing it because they were bullied first. They are only fighting back. That it’s okay for feminists to harass because they’ve had enough of being “oppressed”. Yet, when I ask any feminist, any at all, how they are oppressed. There’s never any answer. Not a legitimate one anyway.
There is this huge idea, in feminist culture/theory whatever you want to call it, that it’s okay for women to be flaming, self entitled, douche bags because women are SO unequal. I’m wondering, what rights in the first world do men have that women don’t? We know that wage gap has been disproved many times over. We know that the 1 in 4 women getting raped in college statistic is fake.
Women in the first world are free to get an education, own businesses, run businesses, own properties, have bank accounts, vote, teach, invent, get married or divorced. In fact, women have the rights over their children, to a point they can put a baby up for adoption without ever even asking the father. Women can have babies and then completely lie about who the father is and force the man to pay child support. The man can even prove in court that the child isn’t his and the court doesn’t care. Men do our hard labor, heavy lifting, disgusting jobs, and mainly go fight in wars. Men are disposable and not at all valued. Men are seen as people who cannot be abused or raped. We have to remind society that men can be abused too, because otherwise it’s seen as a myth. What in the hell are you talking about feminists? How are you so oppressed?
If a woman wants to accuse someone of rape, in the first world, all she has to do is walk into a police station, have a half assed story about how she was raped, and stick to it. I could walk into a police station right now and say “Yeah this guy I met two years ago raped me. I was drunk and I don’t remember much but I’m sure he raped me.” I wouldn’t have to offer any evidence other than a name. After that point, a man has no recourse. None. Sight unseen and with very little investigation, this man would be prosecuted just because I decided to say that small summary. I wouldn’t even have to give that much information. Then, based on that lame story, I could also sue him or his family or his place of business and profit from it. It’s not even that hard. Even if the woman is found to be lying, very little actually happens to her. No one even gives a shit and that man’s life is now destroyed. Women are given so much power over men in a first world country it’s sickening and you want to tell me that women are the oppressed ones? Are you serious?
Yet, still there is this huge myth running rampant. That women are so oppressed, but when you whittle it down to the bare basics they don’t actually have any sources for this horrible oppression. Their sources are hurt feelings and “psychic” abilities. KNOWING that a man is looking at them wrong. KNOWING that a man has sexual thoughts about them. Feminists repeatedly promote this idea that women are weak and vulnerable, while at the same time viciously and violently attacking anyone who doesn’t agree with that.
It got even worse with this #HEFORSHE bullshit. I was never much of a fan of Watson to begin with, but what the hell is this? In the UK especially, rape is defined as something only a man can do. By legal writing in the UK men cannot be raped. Are you kidding me? But we NEED MEN TO HELP WITH EQUALITY? Well unless you mean help men actually be recognized as victims. If you mean getting men to speak up for themselves. If you mean men actually being recognized as victims. Then we will have equality again. As it stands now, there is not equality and not because women are unequal. It’s the MEN who are unequal.
Then you have the bullshit campaign run by Anita Sarkeesian. The whole thing about her wanting to make online harassment (no matter what it is) a criminal offense. Throw that fucker in jail if he says something awful on social media. Anita Sarkeesian who has made a living off of being a professional victim already, and EVERYONE lets her get away with it, now wants to make laws to censor people. Though I agree that no one deserves to die or get death threats for stating an opinion, you cannot make that a criminal offense. Online harassment is already illegal, there just has to be intent behind it. If someone, like me for instance says, “I want to strangle Anita’s fucking neck til her fake eyebrows come off” unless there’s actual intent to do that, it means absolute jack shit. With the way she fucks with people and things they love, of course people aren’t going to be happy.
Even worse, on websites like Twitter and Tumblr and even Facebook, you already have feminists sending death threats. I’ve received numerous messages about how I’d be killed, or told to kill myself, a few women said they were going to hunt me down and destroy me. I know I’m far from the only case of this. Quite far from it.
Anita’s law would backfire because there are plenty of actual feminists already sending death threats. We all know this and yet it’s still all excused. It’s excused because of propaganda. It’s excused by feminists
quite willfully engaging in acts of misinformation. Women are in power now. More powerful than ever before. Things like #HEFORESHE and people like Emma Fucking Watson have only made the balance worse. They have made the world believe to an even HIGHER level that women are NOT equal. And I mean in a bad way.
If anything, as it stands right now. Women are the most valued, coddled, self entitled, spoiled, and enabled gender on the planet. Women are so in charge and so powerful they still have the rest of the world believing they are suffering. How this is continuing and why, I don’t know. People need to grow fucking spines. People need to wake up and educate themselves on what’s going on. The longer we allow them to lie, and to perpetuate and spread myths and propaganda, the worse things are going to become. Mark my words. At least there seemed to be some ray of hope with how everyone defended the shirt.
TamedInsanity, Thanks again for taking the time to stop by and offer us your Voice. I got far more out of your post than I believed I wound. Have a pad of notes here that I want to begin research on.
A couple of things I would like to point out before I open it up for comment,– HeForShe is about the gender issues men face every day, and the other is that while First world does have much more than the rest, HeForShe is a World Wide movement with strong focus on India, Iraq, and the whole continent of Africa — where women and boy are often sold into sexual slavery. Also, women, still to this day, are burned in parts of India when the husband doesn’t get what he feels he deserves for the dowry. Which is actually the term: Dowry Death.
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